
Memorial Day is an opportunity for all of us to reflect on the sacrifices of our men and women in the armed services. Regardless of whether we agree with the war in Iraq or how it is conducted, we must never forget that the troops engaged in the conflict do so because they are fulfilling their duty. They feel it is an obligation and an honor to serve their country. We have no right to question that obligation and owe it to them to support them as best we can.
I have never served in the military but my father and grandfather both served in the Army. My grandfather served in France during World War II. Drafted at the age of 27, this young father of two suddenly found himself among the citizen soldiers bound for Europe. He traveled aboard the troop transport Cheshire in a two ship convoy ferrying infantry from England to France. The other ship, the Leopoldville, was sunk five miles from Cherbourg. Before his division reached the soil of Europe more than 800 of them had perished.
He arrived just after Christmas 1944 and was swept up in the last great German offensive of the war, the Battle of the Bulge. He doesn't talk much about that experience. If pressed he will give you scant details about what he feared during the fighting. The mortars exploding in the treetops, splinters and branches driving down into his foxhole and how the smell of freshly dug earth bothers him to this day. That's all he has to say.
Dad served in Texas, luckily mustering out before Vietnam ramped up. Both of them are fiercely patriotic but temper their patriotism with common sense. They are critical of the government they served when they feel poor leadership is causing harm to the country.
Their sacrifices and experience are worth taking to heart. The overriding lesson to take from both of them is that war kills young men and women who have better destinies to fulfill.
As we remember those who have made the ultimate sacrifice we would do well to remember that the politicians in Washington are the decision makers and that we put them in office. Just as servicemen and women feel an obligation to the country, we have an obligation to them. This November we would do well to remember that.
Photo courtesy of Phil Wilson